By Nikki G
Dear Nikki,
I am 22 years old and I broke up with my ex-girlfriend about 8 months ago. She and I used to have sex on occasion – 2 to 3 times a week. However, since we broke up I feel that I have a problem.
Not so long after the break-up, I decided to start going out and meeting girls – this made me realise how suppressed my sex drive became when I was with my ex. All I can think about is sex, sex, and sex. I sit at a restaurant or at a coffee shop and imagine what it would be like shagging every girl who looks at me.
I still manage to have sex with new girls on average about 5 times per week.
Nikki, please help; I feel that I am addicted to sex. Am I normal?
Sincerely,
Dean
My first thought is, why would a guy want to stop having sex five times a week? The truth is that the human species, especially men, enjoy sex for pleasure, not just to procreate. Why should you want to suppress these natural, normal urges?
But when does it become too much? Read on...