Ask Sabrina - August 2010
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She’s the Jedi mistress of sex and relationships: feel the Force as Sabrina discusses marriage and masturbation.
Do you have a question for Sabrina? Email her here and she could answer it in her column in a future issue of the magazine. Don't forget to pick up this month's mag for her latest column!
ADVANCED ADVICE
I’ve been reading your magazine for many years and love getting advice from the opposite sex. I’m in a relationship with great communication and an amazing sex life and I need some tips that go beyond a starter’s guide to being a good lover. Thoughts?
Mark via FHM.com.au
Have you tried the Kama Sutra? It might sound a bit clichéd, but the ancient Hindu text describes 64 types of sex acts, including some pretty intricate positions and techniques for biting and spanking. Head to your local bookstore and have a browse. We also have a Kama Sutra section on FHM.com.au that gives you a step-by-step photo and video guide to executing several positions, courtesy of two rather attractive young ladies. Enjoy!
MARRIAGE MATERIAL?
I’m 27 and I’ve been going out with my girlfriend for three years. I love her and am pretty sure I want to marry her, but I’m not ready yet. The problem is that she keeps hassling me, and the pressure is starting to freak me out. How do I get her to stop?
Rory, via FHM.com.au
If you’re really in love with this girl and marriage is something you eventually want, you shouldn’t be feeling so freaked out. Of course it’s normal to feel nervous about making such a huge commitment, but there might be deeper reasons. Take the time to reflect on whether she’s really the girl you want to spend the rest of your life with and even whether you want to get married at all. Make sure you’re not considering marrying her because it’s what expected of you. If you decide she’s the one, tell her you do want to marry her eventually but that you’d like to ask her when you feel the time is right.
DEALING WITH DEPRESSION
My girlfriend hasn’t been herself for the past few months. She used to be happy and full of energy, but now she doesn’t do much beyond watching TV. I’m worried she may be depressed. What can I do?
Wilhelm, via FHM.com.au
Depression affects six per cent of the Australian adult population and can be difficult to address. Choose the right time to talk to her (when you’re both calm), tell her you’re worried and ask open-ended questions about how she’s feeling. Listen and be supportive; don’t say everything will be fine and that she should cheer up; if she gets upset, don’t lose your temper. If you think she is suffering from depression, encourage her to get professional help. Get more info at BeyondBlue.org.au.
You just can't get it up, you can't tell if she likes you and your masturbation habits freak your girlfriend out...