Ask Sabrina - July 2010
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’s sex and relationships specialist dispenses advice. This month: would-be auteurs and confusing women.
Do you have a question for Sabrina?
Email her here and she could answer it in her column in a future issue of the magazine. Don't forget to pick up
this month's mag for her latest column!
DON'T BE TOO EAGER
I hooked up with a girl at a club recently. I got her number, texted her and she replied. However, since then – after five messages – no word. Why?
Oviez, via FHM.com.auWomen are a mysterious breed, Oviez. She could have been stringing you along the whole time, had a change of heart, or you may have texted something that turned her off. Not much you can do about the bitchy or indecisive types, but you can make sure you don’t scare her off. Did you respond to her texts too quickly, say within the first two minutes of hers coming through? Were you too full-on trying to make a whole bunch of plans with her, rather than scheduling one date
and taking it from there? Give her enough attention to show you’re interested, but leave a little mystery so she’s intrigued and wants more.
MAKE YOUR OWN MOVIE
I’d like to film homemade porn with my girlfriend – just for fun – but she’s shy and a little paranoid because of all the sex tapes that end up on the internet. How can I convince her?
Wolfgang, via FHM.com.auIt seems everyone and their grandmother in Hollywood has a sex tape these days, so her paranoia is understandable. But it’s not like she’s Pammy Anderson, so the chance your tape would go viral if it was released is minimal. If that’s not a strong enough argument to convince her, tell her she can keep any copies of the recording and stash them wherever she wants. Promise her you’ll start slowly and keep the first movie simple; if she feels comfortable and likes the results, you can up the kink factor for your second effort.
BROS BEFORE HOS
Is it alright to go out with a girl my friend dated a few times? She put an end to it, and he wasn’t devastated or anything...
Steve H, via FHM.com.au
In a word, no. Unless you are convinced this girl is your soul mate and your life isn’t worth living if you can’t be with her, it’s really not worth taking the risk of pissing off your mate, is it? Bros before hos, dude, that’s the rule. That said, if you really do think she’s The One, tell your friend how you feel and ask his permission. He could prove to be understanding and give you his blessing; or tell you to back off. Then you’ll have to decide which relationship you value more.
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