Get her to try new things in bed
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Date Posted:
October-29-2009 11:38
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By Nikki G
Hey Nikki,
I have been with my girlfriend for years. Regrettably I didn't push her into trying new things (specifically anal or toys) early enough in the relationship. We have grown comfortable with each other and now she has no remorse or hesitation with a seemingly automatic “ Ha ha, no” reply every time I bring it up. I live vicariously through my friends. What can I do to make her comfortable with it?
Aaron
First, you should never push or force a girl into anything. If this is the angle you're taking with your sex life, no wonder she's saying no. You need to approach the subject gently and carefully and give her time to digest it all. When it comes to sex, a guy’s patience can wear thin, but you’ll have to learn to wait if you want to get anywhere.
How do you approach the subject of anal sex? If you give her a little nudge while you're having sex to indicate that's what you want, no wonder she laughs. When it comes to anal sex, girls either love it or hate it. She might be open to the idea, but go slowly, create a relaxing environment, take the time to make her feel comfortable and listen to any concerns she might have. Oh, and have some lubricant on hand.
How can Aaron get his girl to use sex toys?