Neil Strauss: Secrets of The Game
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August-5-2008 14:56
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Regardless of your personal opinion on Neil Strauss, one thing is for certain: he attracts women like a three-carat diamond or newborn puppy. Here's how:
1. Dispel the pick up myths
Myth: Women aren’t attracted to nice guys. They like jerks.
Reality: “This is one of the oldest myths about dating,” Neil says. “The dating dichotomy isn’t between nice guys and mean guys. It’s between weak guys and strong guys. Women are drawn to men who demonstrate strength – the ability to make them feel safe. If you’re a nice guy, you can still be nice. But be strong.”
Myth: I’m not good looking or rich enough to be with a beautiful woman.
Reality: “Fortunately for men, the way we look doesn’t matter nearly as much as how we present ourselves. And this requires only good grooming. When it comes to wealth and fame, the desire and ability to achieve them can be just as powerful.”
Myth: If I approach a woman, she’ll know I’m hitting on her and think I’m lame.
Reality: “Women only think this when men approach them badly. The biggest mistake is hitting on her before she’s attracted to you. Few women will resent meeting someone who is warm, funny, sincere, interesting, and engaging.”
Myth: Women don’t like sex as much as men do.
Reality: “If you believe that, you haven’t spent enough time around women. It’s women who have an organ solely made for sexual pleasure: the clitoris. And it’s women whose orgasms can last minutes or longer.”